121. If you’re feeling lost, this is for you

Reflecting on different phases of your life gives you an opportunity to appreciate the moments that have made you who you are, and shows you that you’re capable of so much more than you give yourself credit for. When Raeann moved to Los Angeles five years ago, her life looked a lot different. As she prepares to close this chapter and move to NYC, our good friend Rosie joins Raeann on the podcast to help her recognize and celebrate her evolution and ask hard questions that dive deep into the pivotal moments that have led Raeann to who she is today. We talk about the failures that were just redirections to something better, how to move forward after a big breakup, how solitude is the best way to truly get to know yourself, betting on yourself and going after your dreams even when people around you don’t understand it and so much more. If you’re feeling lost, or don’t know what’s next for you, we hope this episode inspires you to get to know yourself on a deeper level and really go after what you want in life.


“You cannot get to know yourself or experience growth outside of solitude.” - Raeann Langas


“There is such a freedom in getting it wrong and let that refine us and try again.” - Rosie

What we talk about:

  • Raeann’s NYC move and apartment update

  • Who was Raeann when she first moved to LA?

  • That time Raeann almost got married

  • The many jobs Raeann had when she first moved to California

  • How to redirect your focus when you realize something isn’t working

  • Being more mindful of celebrating our wins as women

  • How solitude is essential to getting to know yourself

  • Letting go of control and surrendering to what’s meant to be

  • Why you shouldn’t put literally everything into a relationship

  • Raeann’s hopes, dreams and goals for this next phase of life in New York


“If you try something and it doesn’t work out it’s not a failure because you’ve learned something from it.” - Raeann Langas


“Let’s always leave room for what’s bigger than we can imagine.” - Rosie

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